Love cannot be forced. You have to show yourself to another person to be loved. Also a long friendship must be cultivated. If you just let it go, then both lose interest. There is no culprit here. It’s a natural thing.

Love as a cliché

You realize in the light of the realization (a disappointment takes place) that the love relationship is not really essential. Something is missing.

Vashti Bunyan – Don’t Believe What They Say
City – Am Fenster
Coldplay – The Hardest Part

If you want to possess the other, you lose his love

The basics for real (free) love are: no promises (I can change for you) and no claims (why didn’t you come forward today). This way you avoid contracts (getting along with each other), stay true to yourself and leave the other person his freedom. The other one will gladly come back to you, because he knows that he can come and go as he enjoys it. And if he does not come, it is also good, because then he is well where he is, because he has chosen it freely.

Molly Drake – Love isn’t a right
Slim Cessna’s Auto Club – Raven
Gerhard Gundermann – Kommen und Gehen
Pat Benatar – Love Is A Battlefield

I can’t love you, because you’re the wrong person

Sometimes you just can’t get along with your loved one. One has tried.

Molly Nilsson – Wrong Boy
Tanita Tikaram – Twist in my sobriety

One and one still is one

By showing the friend or relationship partner that you can manage your life well without him or her, you instill confidence. In this way the other person can also feel more secure and respect for each other develops, because you see him as a complete human being.

Drosia – One And One
Amewu – All Ein Sein

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