Too much trust ruins love. The fear of getting to know the loved subject so much, that you get tired of him or her, makes you lose confidence in yourself. You know that you have to escape a boring situation and love affair in order not to torture yourself with it. This experience, that you lose a love (although it was there) by letting another person get too close to you (getting to know him too well) has a formative effect. You learn a dance between closeness and distance to contain this feared situation.
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