One has gained instructive knowledge and experience. The meaning of the painful experiences reveals itself as continuing on a separate path, the knowledge of which is valuable. Recognition and learning from the negative experiences of failure reveals the knowledge of the paths to suffering. These lessons are helpful to avoid future suffering.
Warum Liebeskummer etwas gutes ist!
Note: I have made the following music selection for myself. It may therefore appear to you (the reader) to be unsuitable for this structure, as it is based on personal criteria.
Handle love with care
Do not harm the other person or yourself through loud and false statements. Not to devalue and criticize the other in his way. To take him also with his mistakes and not want to press him into a role that he is not. Not to make promises and ingratiations that you cannot keep. Maintain honesty and dignity. What was it like as a child? When you weren’t losing? Only when you bind yourself to another person as if you could own them, you’ll suffer. We must be like children. And let’s treat the other, the beloved subject as carefully as a child. Don’t speak harsh words and make eternal promises that will be recalled tomorrow. “Everyone believes his own good is right, the good of others is bad”
Saint Etienne – Only love can break your heart
Bettina Wegner – Kinder (Sind so kleine Hände)
Alexandra – Was sind wir Menschen doch für Leute!
Appeal instead of duty
People say you’re not the right person for the job. Who on the outside can judge, anyways? Inside, the truth remains hidden. Time shows whether the fruits are worth it or not. One vocation is the real one, the other the wrong one. If a vocation is given, may the one called be protected from the fate of the powerful, which all too often leads the called on the wrong tracks and imposes duties and nonsense. He who has no duties wins his life. The duties that other people impose on us are the death of the soul.
Jack White – Entitlement
Pentangle – The Trees They Do Grow High
Elena Yerevan – Если у вас нету тёти – Հյուսիսային պողոտա
Avoid illusions
Do you understand that your illusions hurt you? You inflict pain on yourself without understanding. It can be painful to think an illusion is love. Love is real, but if it is not reciprocated, you cry and suffer. Not sitting at home waiting and hoping. Going out and meeting other people, because life is short and holding on to something that has come loose is painful and not helpful. Crying Atlas cedars that only grow once you unleash them. Not clinging to something you only imagine and that holds you in its grip like a spell. To release yourself and others. Not showing something that obscures love, so that the other person cannot see it. Not create an illusion.
Charles Manson – Look At Your Game Girl
Rodriguez – To Whom It May Concern
George Harrison & Leon Russell – Beware Of Darkness
Söhne Mannheims – Geh davon aus
Do not go astray
Appreciate and nurture self-love and self-care. Do not let charms or thieves steal them. For it is the best piece. Not to leave the holistic behind, in order to make a short-term profit. Cultivating the common experience instead of judging and condemning. The wrong way is to want to take – because it is all about giving. Cultivate and learn the ability to find joy in giving, so you will not be able to lose anything. You will gain a happy past by having joyful experiences in life.
Pentangle – Let No Man Steal Your Thyme
Egoshoo7er & Baraqla – Liebefeld
Ziggy Marley – Tomorrow People
Sixto Rodriguez – Street Boy
Note: Music is free and the assignments made here are for entertainment purposes only and can never restrict a song to only these aspects.
